I love him, too. His name is Paddington.

Another point of yours that resonated with me: how easily I begin to question my work when agents looking for a blockbuster don't respond. I suspect that it's the kind of book that would grow a readership slowly through word of mouth. I chose to write that kind of book. I should not be so easily dissuaded from its value. Thanks again!

I'm so glad it was helpful, Virginia! Yes, that's what I thought about the small publishers (good stepping stone), and that's what's happening. I'm thrilled so far. With you already having the big names on your resume, it seems it would help you into some of the very reputable small presses. Makes sense what you say about the critiques as well. Good luck. (And love the horse!!)

Your thoughts on feedback also resonated. Having gone the beta-reader route as well as working with my writing group, I've decided not to tear up my work unless it's for someone who has made a commitment to the book, for the very reasons you state: six reviews, six different ideas as to what just has to be done. In my excellent writing group, I listen for consensus and a good argument that the advice is well-grounded. I often receive the kind of feedback that strikes me instinctively as valuable, sometimes pinpointing a problem I knew at heart needed attention but which I hadn't quite identified.

Thanks for some calls to action.

It's so true, isn't it? We seem hardwired to believe the criticisms but not the praise. Ha ha. Yes, the inevitable "but!" So glad you enjoyed it and that you're working so hard for your students. Obviously they are very lucky to have you. :O)

When they ask, I always say that there are plenty of people out in the world who can and will tell them what's WRONG with their work. Me, I'm going to tell them what works. And, yes, I do point out when something doesn't work, but I don't do that "...this so so good, BUT..." thing that I remember so well from college.

THANK YOU and BLESS YOU for your post!

Sounds like you're getting close, Kim! Best of luck!