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		By: Kathryn Craft		</title>
		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-111861</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathryn Craft]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2016 10:54:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-111858&quot;&gt;Steve Lowe&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for your comment Steve. Make what you will of &quot;writing rules&quot;--award-winning YA novelist A.S. King has used a prologue in every one of her published books because someone once told her she shouldn&#039;t. You&#039;d do better to think of such &quot;rules&quot; as guidelines meant to expose deeper truths about communicating through fiction, and focus on your storytelling instead. The focus of this series of posts is how to overcome the anger, frustration, and cynicism that can hold you back while pursuing your dreams. Feel free to leave a link to the other thread though, for those interested!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-111858">Steve Lowe</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment Steve. Make what you will of "writing rules"--award-winning YA novelist A.S. King has used a prologue in every one of her published books because someone once told her she shouldn't. You'd do better to think of such "rules" as guidelines meant to expose deeper truths about communicating through fiction, and focus on your storytelling instead. The focus of this series of posts is how to overcome the anger, frustration, and cynicism that can hold you back while pursuing your dreams. Feel free to leave a link to the other thread though, for those interested!</p>
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		By: Steve Lowe		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2016 10:26:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve only just found this link from another article titled: &#039;Five comparisons not to make for your book&#039;, where we&#039;ve recently been discussing a variation on this. It&#039;s all very well to cite the truism: &#039;Life&#039;s not fair&#039;, as if that&#039;s meant to mollify the many (most) of us for whom that&#039;s true. Yet when it comes to an industry as big, profitable, long-established and deeply scrutinized by all concerned as publishing, it&#039;s more than a little disappointing to discover that it is quite *so* unfair to the majority who might like to become a part of it, and in doing so, maybe even improve the quality of its output.

Using the example of the other thread, we were instructed *not* to try to emulate the literary devices/writing styles of established, best-selling authors. That was in particular reference to the modern (and it *is* only modern, as in, only existing for the last couple of decades or less) &#039;writing rule&#039;: &#039;Don&#039;t include prologues/dream-sequences in your work&#039;. But the discussion eventually broadened to discuss many of the other modern &#039;writing rules&#039; such as: &quot;Don&#039;t use adjectives/adverbs/semi-colons/dialogue-tags other than &#039;said&#039;, etc.&quot; 

The point of the discussion being (or at least, that was the ultimate conclusion) that aspiring/debut authors are *not* being judged fairly by the agents/editors in publishing because these modern &#039;writing rules&#039; are evidently not being *applied* equally between established and aspiring authors. For example, do a survey of modern best/medium-selling novels and you&#039;ll find that the (vast) majority do not stick rigidly to the &#039;Don&#039;t use dialogue-tags other than said&#039; rule, despite it apparently being enforced on the rest of us. 
Which rule is not only unfairly applied, but (as discussed on the other thread) is also un-evidenced as to its literary validity, arbitrary, has only existed since very recently and (clearly) does not agree with how most modern successful authors write. Following on from the last point, this rule thus also becomes illogical, counter-productive and economically non-sensical if the most successfully modern authors, themselves, ignore it. Not only that, but this particular &#039;rule&#039; contradicts several of the other &#039;writing-rules&#039;, making its application to new authors even more bizarre.

In short, we all know how much competition there is to get published these days, and none of us minds losing out on an agentive/publishing deal to a better writer. But what is quite unforgivably unfair (and economically non-sensical) is for new authors to be told that they&#039;re not supposed to try to emulate precisely the writing-styles used by the most successful authors in the world today, when the evidence would suggest that such writing-styles are precisely what the reading public want! And frankly, it&#039;s impossible for me to escape the conclusion that such &#039;writing-rules&#039; are imposed on aspiring authors for the express purpose of &#039;sabotaging&#039; our chances of getting published. And considering how there are only enough publishing slots for 1% or less of all book submissions these days, I wouldn&#039;t put it past the industry using these &#039;rules&#039; as a crude way to simply &#039;thin-out&#039; the number of submissions they seriously have to consider. And I know that sounds cynical, but then so does the modern publishing industry...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I've only just found this link from another article titled: 'Five comparisons not to make for your book', where we've recently been discussing a variation on this. It's all very well to cite the truism: 'Life's not fair', as if that's meant to mollify the many (most) of us for whom that's true. Yet when it comes to an industry as big, profitable, long-established and deeply scrutinized by all concerned as publishing, it's more than a little disappointing to discover that it is quite *so* unfair to the majority who might like to become a part of it, and in doing so, maybe even improve the quality of its output.</p>
<p>Using the example of the other thread, we were instructed *not* to try to emulate the literary devices/writing styles of established, best-selling authors. That was in particular reference to the modern (and it *is* only modern, as in, only existing for the last couple of decades or less) 'writing rule': 'Don't include prologues/dream-sequences in your work'. But the discussion eventually broadened to discuss many of the other modern 'writing rules' such as: "Don't use adjectives/adverbs/semi-colons/dialogue-tags other than 'said', etc." </p>
<p>The point of the discussion being (or at least, that was the ultimate conclusion) that aspiring/debut authors are *not* being judged fairly by the agents/editors in publishing because these modern 'writing rules' are evidently not being *applied* equally between established and aspiring authors. For example, do a survey of modern best/medium-selling novels and you'll find that the (vast) majority do not stick rigidly to the 'Don't use dialogue-tags other than said' rule, despite it apparently being enforced on the rest of us.<br />
Which rule is not only unfairly applied, but (as discussed on the other thread) is also un-evidenced as to its literary validity, arbitrary, has only existed since very recently and (clearly) does not agree with how most modern successful authors write. Following on from the last point, this rule thus also becomes illogical, counter-productive and economically non-sensical if the most successfully modern authors, themselves, ignore it. Not only that, but this particular 'rule' contradicts several of the other 'writing-rules', making its application to new authors even more bizarre.</p>
<p>In short, we all know how much competition there is to get published these days, and none of us minds losing out on an agentive/publishing deal to a better writer. But what is quite unforgivably unfair (and economically non-sensical) is for new authors to be told that they're not supposed to try to emulate precisely the writing-styles used by the most successful authors in the world today, when the evidence would suggest that such writing-styles are precisely what the reading public want! And frankly, it's impossible for me to escape the conclusion that such 'writing-rules' are imposed on aspiring authors for the express purpose of 'sabotaging' our chances of getting published. And considering how there are only enough publishing slots for 1% or less of all book submissions these days, I wouldn't put it past the industry using these 'rules' as a crude way to simply 'thin-out' the number of submissions they seriously have to consider. And I know that sounds cynical, but then so does the modern publishing industry...</p>
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		By: Lisa Ciarfella		</title>
		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109973</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisa Ciarfella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2016 21:30:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks for that. Glad to know I&#039;m not the only one!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for that. Glad to know I'm not the only one!</p>
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		By: Kathryn Craft		</title>
		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109970</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathryn Craft]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2016 21:24:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109754&quot;&gt;Lisa Ciarfella&lt;/a&gt;.

Lisa I can only imagine that the classroom really rap things up. Then once you&#039;re out it&#039;s the rush to publish. I have a friend going through this pain!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109754">Lisa Ciarfella</a>.</p>
<p>Lisa I can only imagine that the classroom really rap things up. Then once you're out it's the rush to publish. I have a friend going through this pain!</p>
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		By: Lisa Ciarfella		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisa Ciarfella]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2016 02:10:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I liked Hollyl&#039;s &#039;Bottom Line&quot; too! 
Though, as a novice and an MFA student, i feel the competition bug fiercly, pretty much every class, especially as we workshop our stories. 
At this stage, we&#039;re all fighting for our professors approval and trying to get our first stories published, and some of us are having more luck than others. And yeah, I&#039;ve had my share of the &quot;green eyed monster&quot; because of it! We&#039;re also all competitng for a limited # of TA jobs on campus, and so yeah....
Even at this point, I&#039;m feelin ya&#039;ll!

Just trying to rise above...some days, easier to do than others!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I liked Hollyl's 'Bottom Line" too!<br />
Though, as a novice and an MFA student, i feel the competition bug fiercly, pretty much every class, especially as we workshop our stories.<br />
At this stage, we're all fighting for our professors approval and trying to get our first stories published, and some of us are having more luck than others. And yeah, I've had my share of the "green eyed monster" because of it! We're also all competitng for a limited # of TA jobs on campus, and so yeah....<br />
Even at this point, I'm feelin ya'll!</p>
<p>Just trying to rise above...some days, easier to do than others!</p>
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		By: ann oxrieder		</title>
		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109736</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ann oxrieder]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Apr 2016 21:08:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109637&quot;&gt;Kathryn Craft&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you.  I followed the link you gave me and will keep it close.  Ann Oxrieder]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109637">Kathryn Craft</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you.  I followed the link you gave me and will keep it close.  Ann Oxrieder</p>
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		By: Kathryn Craft		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathryn Craft]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2016 23:50:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109661&quot;&gt;Kimberley Griffiths Little&lt;/a&gt;.

I love that Kimberly! Thanks for sharing that story. Now I&#039;ll never forget either: the fair is in August!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109661">Kimberley Griffiths Little</a>.</p>
<p>I love that Kimberly! Thanks for sharing that story. Now I'll never forget either: the fair is in August!</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kimberley Griffiths Little]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2016 21:33:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Many years ago I heard writer&#039;s Kristine Kathryn Rusch and her husband Dean Wesley Smith speak at a writer&#039;s conference and they were talking about the concept of &quot;fairness&quot; in the publishing world. Dean said, &quot;There is no fairness in publishing. You have to go out and make your career happen. You have to work incredibly hard, learn your craft, send out your work, write the next project, and then hope for the best. Nothing is fair because &#039;Fair&#039; is in August.&quot; I&#039;ve always remembered that. &quot;Fair is in August.&quot; Period. There is no other &quot;fair&quot;. :-)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many years ago I heard writer's Kristine Kathryn Rusch and her husband Dean Wesley Smith speak at a writer's conference and they were talking about the concept of "fairness" in the publishing world. Dean said, "There is no fairness in publishing. You have to go out and make your career happen. You have to work incredibly hard, learn your craft, send out your work, write the next project, and then hope for the best. Nothing is fair because 'Fair' is in August." I've always remembered that. "Fair is in August." Period. There is no other "fair". 🙂</p>
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		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109658</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kathryn Craft]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2016 20:59:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109655&quot;&gt;C. K. Crouch&lt;/a&gt;.

These comments show you are not the only one with disdain for the participation trophy, C.K., and I suppose if they were meaningful my adult sons wouldn&#039;t have told me to throw theirs away when they left home. Imagine, landfills full of trophies! I&#039;m no fan myself. I was never into team sports but in my life as an author I have found that I do have a competitive side for sure, and it helps drive me toward my goals.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2016/04/life-isnt-fair-a-classic-problem/#comment-109655">C. K. Crouch</a>.</p>
<p>These comments show you are not the only one with disdain for the participation trophy, C.K., and I suppose if they were meaningful my adult sons wouldn't have told me to throw theirs away when they left home. Imagine, landfills full of trophies! I'm no fan myself. I was never into team sports but in my life as an author I have found that I do have a competitive side for sure, and it helps drive me toward my goals.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2016 20:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I remember hearing this as a child. I think we need to teach our current generation this motto. I have a great niece who said something when a game show was over one day. But that isn&#039;t fair. I was like what are you talking about? It&#039;s a contest in a way to see who can do whatever. Her mother made the excuse it wasn&#039;t her fault she&#039;d never seen the show before. I tried to explain to her if life was fair we&#039;d all have everything we wanted. I don&#039;t see how giving everyone a trophy for participating creates a sense of understanding this. I am always happy for others when they win even if I am a little jealous inside. I shrug and go on, figuring my turn will happen someday.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember hearing this as a child. I think we need to teach our current generation this motto. I have a great niece who said something when a game show was over one day. But that isn't fair. I was like what are you talking about? It's a contest in a way to see who can do whatever. Her mother made the excuse it wasn't her fault she'd never seen the show before. I tried to explain to her if life was fair we'd all have everything we wanted. I don't see how giving everyone a trophy for participating creates a sense of understanding this. I am always happy for others when they win even if I am a little jealous inside. I shrug and go on, figuring my turn will happen someday.</p>
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