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		By: Jenny Mingus		</title>
		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124938</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jenny Mingus]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2017 20:54:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hey, I kind of know what you are getting at. I can&#039;t really write about tragic events while I&#039;m in the middle of them or still reeling from the consequences; during those times, I&#039;m so drowning in emotional vomit that there&#039;s no way I can hammer it into shape, explain my feelings in a way someone else would understand. I&#039;ll write about it in my journal for my own benefit, but I know better than to try to publish it.  Until enough time has passed and the tragic event has healed to a faded, ugly scar and isn&#039;t a hemorrhaging gusher of a wound, I can&#039;t possibly write about it. 

Even so, there&#039;s one event I can&#039;t write about yet. I won&#039;t say I&#039;ll never write about it--experience has taught me God loves nothing more than upsetting Never statements--but it seems unlikely. I can&#039;t write about it, not because it&#039;s the pain is still fresh--it aches from time to time, but it has mostly healed--but because I don&#039;t know how to write it without it coming across as a big long whine. It may have value for me, but if I&#039;m going to share my writing with anyone besides God, I try to make it have value for someone else.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, I kind of know what you are getting at. I can't really write about tragic events while I'm in the middle of them or still reeling from the consequences; during those times, I'm so drowning in emotional vomit that there's no way I can hammer it into shape, explain my feelings in a way someone else would understand. I'll write about it in my journal for my own benefit, but I know better than to try to publish it.  Until enough time has passed and the tragic event has healed to a faded, ugly scar and isn't a hemorrhaging gusher of a wound, I can't possibly write about it. </p>
<p>Even so, there's one event I can't write about yet. I won't say I'll never write about it--experience has taught me God loves nothing more than upsetting Never statements--but it seems unlikely. I can't write about it, not because it's the pain is still fresh--it aches from time to time, but it has mostly healed--but because I don't know how to write it without it coming across as a big long whine. It may have value for me, but if I'm going to share my writing with anyone besides God, I try to make it have value for someone else.</p>
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		By: dholcomb1		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2017 03:45:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m sorry for what you&#039;re going through.

I once had a story idea of writing with a character who had just lived through the tragedy of losing her family in a brutal car accident. Then one of my dearest friends lost her husband in an equally horrific car accident. And a childhood friend of mine died with him. I abandoned that story and have no intention of ever writing it. That experience shook me to the core. I can&#039;t go there. I had it plotted out before the tragedy, but I wasn&#039;t sure what others would think. I also no longer had the heart for the story. 

denise]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I'm sorry for what you're going through.</p>
<p>I once had a story idea of writing with a character who had just lived through the tragedy of losing her family in a brutal car accident. Then one of my dearest friends lost her husband in an equally horrific car accident. And a childhood friend of mine died with him. I abandoned that story and have no intention of ever writing it. That experience shook me to the core. I can't go there. I had it plotted out before the tragedy, but I wasn't sure what others would think. I also no longer had the heart for the story. </p>
<p>denise</p>
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		By: Jenny Hansen		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jenny Hansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2017 19:04:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Orly, I&#039;m sorry you&#039;re hurting. And I agree with you. Some hurts are simply too painful, and must be shelved, either for a while or forever. I know there are writers who can take out those horrors and be with them on the page, but I have to do that in very limited doses. And when it comes to someone else&#039;s pain? Who am I to turn around and spill their secrets onto the page? It doesn&#039;t mean that pieces don&#039;t filter into the writing, but private things deserve to stay private.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Orly, I'm sorry you're hurting. And I agree with you. Some hurts are simply too painful, and must be shelved, either for a while or forever. I know there are writers who can take out those horrors and be with them on the page, but I have to do that in very limited doses. And when it comes to someone else's pain? Who am I to turn around and spill their secrets onto the page? It doesn't mean that pieces don't filter into the writing, but private things deserve to stay private.</p>
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		By: Orly Konig-Lopez		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Orly Konig-Lopez]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2017 18:33:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124876&quot;&gt;thewriteedge&lt;/a&gt;.

I think there are enough stories out there for all of us! 
Thanks for reading and commenting!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124876">thewriteedge</a>.</p>
<p>I think there are enough stories out there for all of us!<br />
Thanks for reading and commenting!!</p>
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		By: thewriteedge		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2017 16:56:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Whew, it&#039;s a relief to know I&#039;m not the only one who won&#039;t tread in certain areas. I admired Gillian Flynn for having the guts to write _Gone Girl_ but was, to be perfectly honest, kind of horrified at the story and would never have been able to write it myself. Likewise, I&#039;ve read books about kidnappings, abuse, etc., but wouldn&#039;t be able to live through those situations with my own characters. If that means my scope and possibilities for publication are a little limited...I think I&#039;d be okay with that.

Thanks again for another great article!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whew, it's a relief to know I'm not the only one who won't tread in certain areas. I admired Gillian Flynn for having the guts to write _Gone Girl_ but was, to be perfectly honest, kind of horrified at the story and would never have been able to write it myself. Likewise, I've read books about kidnappings, abuse, etc., but wouldn't be able to live through those situations with my own characters. If that means my scope and possibilities for publication are a little limited...I think I'd be okay with that.</p>
<p>Thanks again for another great article!</p>
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		By: Jenny Hansen		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jenny Hansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2017 15:46:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124862&quot;&gt;LauraDrake&lt;/a&gt;.

OMG, those animal commercials. I make the Hubs turn the channel the minute I hear the song. I sob like a baby. But then, I always have. Now that I&#039;m a mom, I cannot stomach the starving children commercials either. The flies make me want to throw up and hand over all my money.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124862">LauraDrake</a>.</p>
<p>OMG, those animal commercials. I make the Hubs turn the channel the minute I hear the song. I sob like a baby. But then, I always have. Now that I'm a mom, I cannot stomach the starving children commercials either. The flies make me want to throw up and hand over all my money.</p>
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		By: Orly Konig-Lopez		</title>
		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124868</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Orly Konig-Lopez]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2017 13:28:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124858&quot;&gt;rosieways&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for reading and commenting!!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124858">rosieways</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for reading and commenting!!!</p>
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		By: Orly Konig-Lopez		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Orly Konig-Lopez]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2017 13:28:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124856&quot;&gt;Zan Marie&lt;/a&gt;.

Hugs back at ya, Zan Marie!!!!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2017/01/knowing-your-limits-as-a-writer/#comment-124856">Zan Marie</a>.</p>
<p>Hugs back at ya, Zan Marie!!!!</p>
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		By: LauraDrake		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2017 10:03:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You know after catching up with all the comments, it reminded me of something.

I&#039;ve gotten softer over the years. There used to be so little that really rocked me. Now, I have to flip channels at the ASPCA commercials, too. I can cry at detergent commercials. 

I&#039;ve seen this in the past with .loved ones as they age. Maybe it&#039;s like Seger&#039;s song, &#039;Against the Wind&#039;. Maybe it&#039;s part of mellowing.

But it&#039;s disconcerting to this biker-chick, I can tell you that.

Has anyone else noticed this?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know after catching up with all the comments, it reminded me of something.</p>
<p>I've gotten softer over the years. There used to be so little that really rocked me. Now, I have to flip channels at the ASPCA commercials, too. I can cry at detergent commercials. </p>
<p>I've seen this in the past with .loved ones as they age. Maybe it's like Seger's song, 'Against the Wind'. Maybe it's part of mellowing.</p>
<p>But it's disconcerting to this biker-chick, I can tell you that.</p>
<p>Has anyone else noticed this?</p>
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		By: rosieways		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2017 19:50:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Your post really hit home with me. Like you I will not read books simply because they are well written or on the best sellers&#039; list. I read what sits comfortably with me, likewise my writing. I write, primarily because I love it but also because I have something to say. 

I began writing as a form of therapy &#038; it worked beyond my expectations. Due to the nature of my life problems, I have a rich cache of subjects that could be used, but are topics from my past that I don&#039;t want to share. 
I attempt to live my life in a positive, happy way, this has been achieved by facing my problems then letting them go. I dare say that I could pen one or more heart wrenchers, which could be good for sales, but not for my inner peace.
There is plenty of raw emotion, tucked away, that I am happy to use, as for the rest? No, it&#039;s personal &#038; if that lessens interest in my work, so be it.
My inner peace is worth more than increased book sales.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your post really hit home with me. Like you I will not read books simply because they are well written or on the best sellers' list. I read what sits comfortably with me, likewise my writing. I write, primarily because I love it but also because I have something to say. </p>
<p>I began writing as a form of therapy &amp; it worked beyond my expectations. Due to the nature of my life problems, I have a rich cache of subjects that could be used, but are topics from my past that I don't want to share.<br />
I attempt to live my life in a positive, happy way, this has been achieved by facing my problems then letting them go. I dare say that I could pen one or more heart wrenchers, which could be good for sales, but not for my inner peace.<br />
There is plenty of raw emotion, tucked away, that I am happy to use, as for the rest? No, it's personal &amp; if that lessens interest in my work, so be it.<br />
My inner peace is worth more than increased book sales.</p>
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