Yes Julie, exactly why I revisited this little piece of life wisdom. Our country is in such need of commonsense, rational, compassionate voices right now, but an author's life is already so full. I think we end up at a crossroads that begs us to choose how best to put our voice into the world. Our decision could absolutely take us from our writing. Instead, I have recommitted to mine, and to the marketing that creates those big signs that say: My contribution? This way ———>

Thanks for blogging the link, Kerry!

In moments of clarity, I know that Art Matters. What I write, the words I share with the world in my novels and stories, ARE my voice of protest, they are enough. But only if I make my work, my avocation, a priority. I'm not so good at the balancing act, but forgiving myself and allowing the grace of being where I am is a daily practice in self-love and health. Embracing the work of my community- supporting my fellow authors, guiding aspiring authors to find their path, is the gift I can give.

Thank you for this reminder, and to all for the perspectives they've shared here. It so help to know the anxieties and determination are shared.

xoxo Julie

Fae your last comment—ugh. Always such a struggle! As to "no" to family members, yes it's super hard. My husband, who is retired, has a relationship with our grandchildren that I may never be able to approximate. I just feel I owe it to them as much as myself to give this all I have.

Debbie omg look at the typo in that sentence! Hilarious. Yes, clearly, it is quite hard!

I love WITS too, Julie, and others agree—they just got into Writer's Digest's Top 101 blogs for Writers again! Woot woot!