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		By: Rachel Warmath		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel Warmath]]></dc:creator>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176890&quot;&gt;Bob Cohn&lt;/a&gt;.

Glad it was helpful, and thanks for reading!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176890">Bob Cohn</a>.</p>
<p>Glad it was helpful, and thanks for reading!</p>
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		By: Bob Cohn		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bob Cohn]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2026 18:25:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great post, Rachel. I&#039;ve been guilty of at least two of your limiting beliefs. What you call reframes are also called affirmations, and they are powerful, not only in marketing but also in self-talk. 
Unfortunately, the limiting beliefs you list are also powerful affirmations, just on the wrong side of the ledger and sponsored by my internal critic. Thank you so much for pointing that out to me. Now that I recognize that, I can change it.
Henry Ford reportedly said, &quot;Whether you believe you can or you believe you can&#039;t, you&#039;re right.&quot; 

Affirmations affect belief. Big Time!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, Rachel. I've been guilty of at least two of your limiting beliefs. What you call reframes are also called affirmations, and they are powerful, not only in marketing but also in self-talk.<br />
Unfortunately, the limiting beliefs you list are also powerful affirmations, just on the wrong side of the ledger and sponsored by my internal critic. Thank you so much for pointing that out to me. Now that I recognize that, I can change it.<br />
Henry Ford reportedly said, "Whether you believe you can or you believe you can't, you're right." </p>
<p>Affirmations affect belief. Big Time!</p>
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		By: Bernadette		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Bernadette]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Mar 2026 13:31:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[loved this...so true. thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>loved this...so true. thank you!</p>
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		By: denise		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[denise]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 04:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A little of each.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A little of each.</p>
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		By: Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 03:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I dumped Impostor Syndrome years ago, when I met my own best standards and admitted it. Those standards came from all kinds of reading, and prepared me, once I figured out how, to judge my own fiction. I also have extensive checklists.

I can&#039;t afford to doubt myself. Due to chronic illness, I have a hard enough time getting it to work for me - I don&#039;t want to spend time second-guessing myself even more times.

I have a wonderful beta reader - she&#039;s my target audience cubed. I only send her what I believe is finished work - she tells me the emotional impact (and catches the occasional typos or confusing bit): when she sends back an email calling me an evil woman, we&#039;re done with that chapter. When you&#039;re disabled, everything takes more time and more work, but it does help me slow down and read what&#039;s on the page - and not stop futzing until it&#039;s what I want.

The thing you don&#039;t find out for a while when you start writing is that headlines do not work well with doubts in them, so each article/post/book author has to sound very positive about their advice - when it&#039;s their current opinion, nothing more.

And that there are MANY ways of getting to the end of a story - and many ways of getting that end written.

I always mention that my advice works for me. I may sometimes mention my advice is not the same as some others&#039; advice.

I like to point out that the biggest thing writers can do for themselves is to find out if they are pantsers or plotters or a combination, because pantser methods don&#039;t work well for plotters, and vice versa. That distinction cost me years when I, a natural extreme plotter, tried to follow advice from a pantser. IMNVHO]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I dumped Impostor Syndrome years ago, when I met my own best standards and admitted it. Those standards came from all kinds of reading, and prepared me, once I figured out how, to judge my own fiction. I also have extensive checklists.</p>
<p>I can't afford to doubt myself. Due to chronic illness, I have a hard enough time getting it to work for me - I don't want to spend time second-guessing myself even more times.</p>
<p>I have a wonderful beta reader - she's my target audience cubed. I only send her what I believe is finished work - she tells me the emotional impact (and catches the occasional typos or confusing bit): when she sends back an email calling me an evil woman, we're done with that chapter. When you're disabled, everything takes more time and more work, but it does help me slow down and read what's on the page - and not stop futzing until it's what I want.</p>
<p>The thing you don't find out for a while when you start writing is that headlines do not work well with doubts in them, so each article/post/book author has to sound very positive about their advice - when it's their current opinion, nothing more.</p>
<p>And that there are MANY ways of getting to the end of a story - and many ways of getting that end written.</p>
<p>I always mention that my advice works for me. I may sometimes mention my advice is not the same as some others' advice.</p>
<p>I like to point out that the biggest thing writers can do for themselves is to find out if they are pantsers or plotters or a combination, because pantser methods don't work well for plotters, and vice versa. That distinction cost me years when I, a natural extreme plotter, tried to follow advice from a pantser. IMNVHO</p>
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		By: Carrie Nichols		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Carrie Nichols]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 19:18:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176826&quot;&gt;Jenny Hansen&lt;/a&gt;.

There&#039;s lots of You Tube videos about Clifton Strengths for writers.

My #1 is Input which means I need to gather new information to be creative so when I denied myself reading for pleasure or watching movies because I hadn&#039;t been writing, I was denying myself the things that spark my creativity.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176826">Jenny Hansen</a>.</p>
<p>There's lots of You Tube videos about Clifton Strengths for writers.</p>
<p>My #1 is Input which means I need to gather new information to be creative so when I denied myself reading for pleasure or watching movies because I hadn't been writing, I was denying myself the things that spark my creativity.</p>
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		By: Rachel Warmath		</title>
		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176835</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel Warmath]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 19:14:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176829&quot;&gt;Annabelle Franklin&lt;/a&gt;.

Absolutely! I love that reminder, Annabelle. Thank you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176829">Annabelle Franklin</a>.</p>
<p>Absolutely! I love that reminder, Annabelle. Thank you!</p>
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		By: Rachel Warmath		</title>
		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176834</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel Warmath]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 19:13:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176821&quot;&gt;Carrie Nichols&lt;/a&gt;.

I haven&#039;t heard of that one, I&#039;ll have to check it out!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176821">Carrie Nichols</a>.</p>
<p>I haven't heard of that one, I'll have to check it out!</p>
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		By: Rachel Warmath		</title>
		<link>https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176833</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel Warmath]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 19:13:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176818&quot;&gt;Kimberly Jayne&lt;/a&gt;.

I&#039;m so glad it resonated! Yes, stay optimistic, trust yourself, and know you&#039;re not alone in feeling this way!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176818">Kimberly Jayne</a>.</p>
<p>I'm so glad it resonated! Yes, stay optimistic, trust yourself, and know you're not alone in feeling this way!</p>
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		By: Rachel Warmath		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rachel Warmath]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2026 19:12:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176817&quot;&gt;Jennifer Tooker&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you for sharing that reflection, Jennifer! I can definitely relate to imposter syndrome with different projects. Vulnerability is tough but what a gift to your readers that you&#039;re sharing openly like that!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2026/03/7-things-no-one-tells-you-about-becoming-an-author/#comment-176817">Jennifer Tooker</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing that reflection, Jennifer! I can definitely relate to imposter syndrome with different projects. Vulnerability is tough but what a gift to your readers that you're sharing openly like that!</p>
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