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		By: Rebecca Forster		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rebecca Forster]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2025 03:20:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174740&quot;&gt;Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt&lt;/a&gt;.

Love the titles of your books. And yes, gated with the mailroom is wonderful, just know that using that address it will be clear you live there. The other option is simply not having a snail mail. It&#039;s not really necessary anymore but because I&#039;m married to a judge we are both pretty cautious especially after my first experience.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174740">Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt</a>.</p>
<p>Love the titles of your books. And yes, gated with the mailroom is wonderful, just know that using that address it will be clear you live there. The other option is simply not having a snail mail. It's not really necessary anymore but because I'm married to a judge we are both pretty cautious especially after my first experience.</p>
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		By: Rebecca Forster		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rebecca Forster]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2025 03:19:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174749&quot;&gt;denise&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you taking a look, Denise. Have a great thanksgiving.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174749">denise</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you taking a look, Denise. Have a great thanksgiving.</p>
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		By: Jenny Hansen		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jenny Hansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 20:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174768&quot;&gt;Lisa Norman&lt;/a&gt;.

Do tell me more about the virtual PO Boxes!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174768">Lisa Norman</a>.</p>
<p>Do tell me more about the virtual PO Boxes!</p>
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		By: Lisa Norman		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisa Norman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2025 18:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Rebecca, great post. I hear a lot of authors saying they can&#039;t afford a PO box. I agree with you that it&#039;s needed. Sharing or using a virtual PO box are also options. Having been through a stalking situation, there is no cost too high to avoid that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebecca, great post. I hear a lot of authors saying they can't afford a PO box. I agree with you that it's needed. Sharing or using a virtual PO box are also options. Having been through a stalking situation, there is no cost too high to avoid that.</p>
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		By: Jenny Hansen		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jenny Hansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 18:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174754&quot;&gt;Jerold Tabbott&lt;/a&gt;.

Dang it! Wouldn&#039;t that be awesome? I wrote a futuristic story set on the moon for an NYC Midnight contest, and the research was fascinating.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174754">Jerold Tabbott</a>.</p>
<p>Dang it! Wouldn't that be awesome? I wrote a futuristic story set on the moon for an NYC Midnight contest, and the research was fascinating.</p>
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		By: Jenny Hansen		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jenny Hansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 18:19:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174749&quot;&gt;denise&lt;/a&gt;.

I thought so too, Denise!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174749">denise</a>.</p>
<p>I thought so too, Denise!</p>
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		By: Jerold Tabbott		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jerold Tabbott]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 15:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Interesting stories. I&#039;m definitely impressed by your innovative approach to research. Unfortunately for me, as a devoted sci-fi author, NASA doesn&#039;t offer &#039;ride alongs.&#039;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting stories. I'm definitely impressed by your innovative approach to research. Unfortunately for me, as a devoted sci-fi author, NASA doesn't offer 'ride alongs.'</p>
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		By: denise		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 06:50:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Great advice.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great advice.</p>
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		By: Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2025 00:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174739&quot;&gt;Rebecca Forster&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks!

Pride&#039;s Children: PURGATORY and NETHERWORLD are the first two parts of a mainstream contemporary literary trilogy, a single story; I&#039;m working to finish LIMBO.

I do live in a protected community - with a mailroom and a 24/7 Front Desk - so probably won&#039;t need a PO Box, but will bear that in mind if I ever receive a letter (no letters so far) that has any red flags.

I liked your detail about the tight writing because of paper shortage - makes perfect sense. I don&#039;t mind where any real fans might be, and if I were in jail books would be my salvation. But we do have to practice safe writing!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174739">Rebecca Forster</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
<p>Pride's Children: PURGATORY and NETHERWORLD are the first two parts of a mainstream contemporary literary trilogy, a single story; I'm working to finish LIMBO.</p>
<p>I do live in a protected community - with a mailroom and a 24/7 Front Desk - so probably won't need a PO Box, but will bear that in mind if I ever receive a letter (no letters so far) that has any red flags.</p>
<p>I liked your detail about the tight writing because of paper shortage - makes perfect sense. I don't mind where any real fans might be, and if I were in jail books would be my salvation. But we do have to practice safe writing!</p>
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		By: Rebecca Forster		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rebecca Forster]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2025 23:29:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174733&quot;&gt;Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt&lt;/a&gt;.

Alicia, I treasure my fans too and the good friends some fans have become. I received letters from the prisons and that&#039;s what actually prompted the P.O. Don&#039;t be surprised if it is your writing that has sparked something. I was surprised to find it was my women&#039;s fiction that found it&#039;s way into the prisons, not my thrillers. Those were the books that prompted the letters. You just never know. Congrats on your books. No matter how many you write, the fact that you—and those on this site—have written even one book means we are in the 1% that finish!!! That makes me your fan.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://writersinthestormblog.com/2025/11/fans-the-good-the-bad-plus-6-tips-for-preventing-the-ugly/#comment-174733">Alicia Butcher Ehrhardt</a>.</p>
<p>Alicia, I treasure my fans too and the good friends some fans have become. I received letters from the prisons and that's what actually prompted the P.O. Don't be surprised if it is your writing that has sparked something. I was surprised to find it was my women's fiction that found it's way into the prisons, not my thrillers. Those were the books that prompted the letters. You just never know. Congrats on your books. No matter how many you write, the fact that you—and those on this site—have written even one book means we are in the 1% that finish!!! That makes me your fan.</p>
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