by Jenny Hansen
Every writer strives to create characters who leap off the page as unique, compelling, fully-formed people. We spend hours, days, and sometimes years to make them believable.
Recently, I attended a day job webinar that gave me new tools and perspectives for fiction. (I love it when that happens.)
The course detailed the eight characteristics every person needs to successfully navigate this “adulting” thing and realize their full potential. Here are my thoughts about tweaking these traits to help our own heroes and heroines as they journey through our stories.
Meet the “8 Cs”
We want our characters to be whole by the end of the story, or at least whole enough to fight another day. The list below, shared by a long-time social worker, contains the qualities people need to be fully actualized [aka happy], and some exercises that will help them “get there.”
The conundrum of happy characters often lies inside the artist. Most creative spirits are forged from adversity. As Richard M. Nixon said, “The finest steel has to go through the hottest fire.”
We want to put our characters through these hot fires of hell. We need to hold them to the flames to keep readers reading. But most writers also want their characters to find happiness by the time they write The End. It's especially difficult to keep our eye on the happy prize when the world around us is chaotic.
How do you mess with a character’s happily-ever-after under these circumstances?
Meet the 8 Cs:
How can we use these character traits?
Below are quotes, questions and affirmations for each quality that may spark ideas for your own characters. The smart writer will pick a few traits and ensure that their character is terrible at them.
Note: Angela Ackerman a post for us about a character’s unmet need, which is a great counterpart to this post. A character’s "lacking" qualities or their unmet need is the stuff of a great hero’s journey.
“Curiosity is one of the great secrets of happiness.” – Bryant McGill
An enquiring mind is a wonderful thing. People with highly developed curiosity are often healthier and happier. People with a well-developed sense of curiosity are often more mindful of their world, and more accepting of themselves.
- How do I feel about this, and why?
- What if I were more present right now?
- What do I need the most right now?
- What inner strengths have I discovered in this situation?
“Out of crisis, comes clarity.” – Randolph O’Toole
The actual definition of clarity is “the quality of transparency or purity.” It means to have clearness, wisdom, an understanding of your world or situation.
In fiction, if you have a mentor in your book, they likely have clarity. How would this look on the page? What might this mentor say to your main character?
- Find your refuge.
- Respond, don’t react.
- Dig deep.
“It is confidence in our bodies, minds, and spirits that allows us to keep looking for new adventures.” – Oprah Winfrey
Character affirmations to help underscore your character's confidence:
- Celebrate victories.
- Do your best. It will be good enough.
- Be congruent.
- I am me, and I am okay.
“The creative adult is the child who survived.” – Ursula Le Guin
Mantras or sayings for a character brimming with creativity:
- Has anything/anyone inspired you lately?
- Everything in my life inspires me to create.
- Express your thoughts and feelings your way.
- I gift the world through my creative expression.
“Feelings are just visitors, let them come and go.” – Thich Nhat Hanh
Everyone has a friend or family member who goes from zero to everything when it comes to their emotions. Calm is the opposite of that. Calm takes a moment to assess. Calm looks inward before it looks outward.
Does your character have calm? How do they use to progress your plot? Perhaps they lack calm. How does that hurt them?
If they have this superpower, here are their mantras.
- Differentiate between fear, anger, and helplessness. Then lean in.
- Don’t get hijacked by your feelings.
- “Rest and digest”. Try not to just react.
“Always remember you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and than you think.” – Christopher Robin
Courage is what every great hero is made of. It's about willingness, effort and potential failure. It is about finding a way where there is no way.
How would a courageous character look?
- They’d engage in authentic communication with others.
- According to Brené Brown, they would allow themselves to be vulnerable.
- They'd possess a willingness to be uncomfortable.
- Also, an optimism that failure is not the end.
William Faulkner said, “You cannot swim for new horizons until you have courage to lose sight of the shore.”
“If I am not first for myself, then who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I? And if not now, when?” – Rabbi Hillel
Love and compassion for others starts with love and compassion for one’s self. It is the hardest thing to remember for many of us and the easiest thing to forget in times of stress.
Characters who have compassion as their superpower should know the following:
- Self-compassion is fundamental.
- Find acceptance, not judgment.
- Bring compassion to your pain.
“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” – Jack Kornfield
“Only through our connectedness to others can we really know and enhance the self.” – Harriet Lerner
Do you have a character with a strong community or one who keeps to themselves? Do they want to be connected, but don't know what that looks like? Perhaps they build a community for others but don’t feel they deserve one of their own.
How does your character connect? What is their love language? Is it their time…gifts…actions?
Here are some philosophies the connected character might live by:
- Nurture your inner strengths. Then share them.
- Expand your generosity. Then share it.
- Open your heart and your mind, as well as your arms.
Now it's your turn...
What is your main character's superpower trait? What are they terrible at? What other traits would you add to the list? Share your thoughts down in the comments!
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By day, Jenny provides corporate communications and LinkedIn advice for professional services firms. By night she writes humor, memoir, women’s fiction, and short stories. After 18 years as a corporate trainer, she’s delighted to sit down while she works.