December 29th, 2017

Jumpstart Your Writing Mojo: How Writing “As If” Can Change “Faking Success” Into “Raking Success”

Bryan E. Robinson, Ph.D.

author photo by Carlo Pieroni

 

Act as if you’re a writer. Sit down and begin. Act as if you might just create something beautiful, and by beautiful I mean something authentic and universal. —Dani Shapiro

Raise your hand if you’ve ever been unsure which direction to take with your writing, if self-doubt has nipped at your heels, or you’ve landed in the clutches of writer’s block or “second book syndrome.”

I thought so.

Writing rejections and disappointments nibble away at us like torture from half a million cuts. After a while, it feels as if we’re bleeding and can’t tolerate one more slash. Statistics show that more of us have the stamina to continue to take safety risks after a car crash than to continue after a series of psychological defeats. Writers often throw in the towel so they don’t have to continue feeling disappointment. Attempts to bring quick relief to the misery of defeat rob us of knowing what missed opportunities lay beyond the barrier. This impulsive reaction—scientists call it the what-the-hell effect—is a way out: permission to give up. Adding insult to injury, we seek comfort in the very thing we’re trying to conquer: writing failure.

Most of us who’ve written for any length of time have gotten stuck somewhere along the way. But there’s good news. Twelve Step programs have thrown a phrase around for years called “acting as if.” This principle can help us get through periods of writing paralysis.

What does it mean to act as if? Acting as if is a simple, yet powerful tool that says we can create outer circumstances by acting as if they’re already true. We give ourselves to a certain performance as if it’s how we feel. When we act as if, the mood we pretend becomes a reality.

Suppose we’re angry toward someone who offended us but want to be forgiving. We can start to feel forgiving by acting as if we are forgiving. Perhaps we’re feeling cold and detached but want to be happy for a fellow author’s good news. We can be happy by acting as if we are happy. Maybe we have difficulty getting words on the page, but instead of fighting tooth and nail, we convince ourselves it’s easy, write as if it’s easy, and tackle the difficulty with ease.

Authors of all genres have used this method to jumpstart their writing mojo. The Playwright Tennessee Williams said, “I believe the way to write a good play is to convince yourself it is easy to do then go ahead and do it with ease.” Screenwriter Steven Pressfield also recommends the as if approach: “You and I as writers must write as if we were highly paid, even though we may not be. We must write as if we were top-shelf literary professionals, even though we may not (yet) be.”

When I wrote Limestone Gumption: A Brad Pope and Sisterfriends Mystery and Daily Writing Resilience: 365 Meditations & Inspirations for Writers, I too, used the as if strategy in my fiction and nonfiction work, writing as if my books will be on the shelves beside Stephen King or J. K. Rowling, as if Steven Spielberg will beat down my door to sign me for the screenplay. I’m still waiting for Hollywood to call, but I can testify to the effectiveness of this strategy.

Scientific evidence supports the old adage when we act as if, the rest of us follows suit. It’s based on the mind-body connection. The cells of our bodies constantly eavesdrop on our thoughts from the wings of our minds. When we’re doubtful or disappointed about our writing, our bodies go with the downturn of our feelings, making us feel worse. Hunching our heads or slumping when we walk makes us come across as insecure.

On the other hand, if we change our body posture, breathing patterns, muscle tension, facial expressions, gestures, movements, words, vocal tonality, it releases a surge of chemicals and changes our internal state. For example, making the facial expression of a smile can make us happy. Or standing tall, shoulders back, not only makes us look confident, but also makes us feel more confident. Training the body to position itself the way we want to think and feel about ourselves adjusts our thoughts and feelings to the way we want them to be. Making body adjustments—pulling our shoulders back, standing or sitting up straight, walking in a more expansive way—can pull us out of self-doubt, disappointment, or any other self-defeating emotion.

When our minds and bodies proceed with the way we want to be (as if), our attitudes navigate us with easy sailing through choppy writing storms. This tool can salvage a bad writing day, repair or prevent a squabble with a fellow author, or kick-start a marathon in front of a blank screen turning dread into enthusiasm.

So let’s convince ourselves that a writing challenge is actually a piece of cake, act as if it’s true, then notice the ease with which an obstacle becomes a cinch to work through. To say we write “as if” is another way of saying we’re resilient warriors on a literary path, determined to persevere over the long haul.

 

Have you had success with acting as if? How can you see yourself using the technique in 2018? Do you have questions for Bryan?

 

BRYAN E. ROBINSON is consulting editor for International Thriller Writers’ online magazine, The Big Thrill and columnist for Southern Writer’s
Magazine
and Psychology Today. Bryan authored two murder mysteries (working on the third) and 35 nonfiction books that were translated into thirteen languages. His debut novel, Limestone Gumption, was a multi-award winner for best psychological suspense. His latest books are Daily Writing Resilience: 365 Meditations & Inspirations for Writers (Llewellyn Worldwide, January 2018), and the thriller, Bloody Bones (forthcoming). He maintains a private psychotherapy practice in Asheville, NC.

    

 

33 responses to “Jumpstart Your Writing Mojo: How Writing “As If” Can Change “Faking Success” Into “Raking Success””

  1. Tina Newcomb says:

    Perfect positive way to start out the New Year. Thanks for the great article, Bryan. Now, I'm going to go back and write "as if".

  2. lrtrovi says:

    I'm now acting as if I didn't need this message (but I did, thanks!)

  3. Fake it till ya make it 😉

  4. johntshea says:

    A psychological concept I've heard of before but rarely tried so far. A kind of feedback. I'll try it again, beginning by acting as if it works! Thanks!

  5. Debbie Herbert says:

    I am going to put this principal into effect NOW. Thanks so much. I love when advice comes at just the right moment!

  6. As a professional coach, I utilize 'as-if' shifts every day with my clients and can personally attest to the power of their use. As a writer, I use them the moment I sit down to write, acting 'as-if' I were inside the story and experiencing everything in the moment. Great article, Bryan.

  7. Rick George says:

    Wow...powerful information--thanks for sharing it!

  8. janetsm says:

    Great advice! Thanks for sharing. I plan to put this into practice in my writing starting today.

  9. Fae Rowen says:

    When I saw this post, I had to smile. The concept is explained, very briefly, in my debut book, PRISM. I haven’t practiced “as if” but with this reminder, it’s on my radar for 2018. Thank you, Bryan!

  10. LauraDrake says:

    I LIVE 'As if'! People are always surprised when they find that I'm the same neurotic mess that they are, underneath, because I've gotten so good at the 'faking it til you make it' part!

    • berobins says:

      We're all pretty much the same on the inside, I have discovered as a psychotherapist. So that makes all of us normal--a neurotic mess or not. Thanks LauraDrake for sharing.

  11. carrienichols says:

    Wonderful post!! I love this approach and will try to put it into practice in 2018. Thank you so mucy.

  12. Julie Glover says:

    I absolutely believe in this approach! That said, it's not always easy to do in the moment. I tend to revert back if I don't consciously consider the Acting As If perspective. One other thing I learned was the power of the Wonder Woman pose, which is a pose that goes along with positioning your body in a confident way...and then your emotions and self-confidence follow. Great stuff!

  13. deni312017 says:

    This is a wonderfull post. Thanks a lot!

  14. Jenny Hansen says:

    I'm a huge fan of "fake it till you make it!" And I love this line: "The cells of our bodies constantly eavesdrop on our thoughts from the wings of our minds." That cognitive re-framing is something I struggle with.

  15. 50at70 says:

    Always done this since a child with a Mother that's favorite thing to say sitting or standing "pull your shoulders back and sit up straight." I like to stand tall with shoulders back and in a 5'5" body + 4 " heels and 3" high hair I found when I started working as a second career I could look most of the people (men) in the conference room in the eye. If does make a difference. Also a not fake looking smile is a great help. Been slow getting back into writing and hadn't thought of the correlation in the attitude you show and feel in writing. I'll be sitting straighter tomorrow (as now).

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