by Lisa Norman
Let’s be real: the phrase “email marketing” can make a lot of us twitchy.
We’re writers, not brand strategists. We know how to build rich, emotional worlds—but a newsletter subject line that converts? Ugh. That sounds like a corporate memo, not a love letter to our readers.
But here’s the thing: connecting with your readers isn’t about marketing. It’s about play. It’s about building that same sense of delight, curiosity, and “what’s next?” that keeps someone turning pages at 2 a.m.
Want proof? Let’s talk numbers.
In the entertainment world (yes, that includes us!), the average email open rate hovers around 40%. That’s fantastic. It tells us readers want to hear from creators. But what they don’t want? A sterile sales pitch.
Side note: when we talk “open rate” we aren’t talking about the actual email content, but we’re only evaluating three things: subject line, snippet, and our name recognition. The connections and expectations that we’ve built with our fans are an important part.
One author I know—who typically gets great engagement—once sent out a short email that simply announced a release date. No story. No spark. Just the facts.
Her open rate dropped to 15%.
It wasn’t a failure. It was a signal. A reminder that readers aren’t just waiting for updates—they’re looking for a connection. A release date is helpful, sure. But without a sense of story or delight, it can feel like inbox noise.
On the flip side, I have a client with a tiny but mighty list. She sends newsletters that read more like story snippets than marketing—playful, reader-centered, full of voice—and her open rate? A jaw-dropping 70%. Her readers want to support her creative career, because she’s made them feel like part of it.
Another client, with a much larger list, consistently hits 50% open rates. Her secret? She shows up with personality, with behind-the-scenes peeks, and sometimes just a moment of real-life chaos. Her newsletters aren’t about her books—they’re about connection.
And yes, they almost always include links to buy books. This isn’t about not selling, but about connecting with readers deeply before selling.
What Makes Readers Actually Open Your Emails?
Here’s what we’ve learned from the inbox trenches:
- Be Personal—Not just “use their name,” but actually sound like yourself. Write like you’re talking to a reader who adores your weird little universe.
- Offer Value—Give them something to smile about, think about, or save for later. A deleted scene, a writing blooper, a book recommendation—anything that adds to their day.
- Invite Curiosity—Tease, don’t dump. Keep them wondering what’s around the corner.
- Be Consistent—A familiar voice gets opened. You don’t need to be weekly—just dependable. Like a favorite author showing up with a new chapter.
And About Those Numbers…
Open rates can be wildly helpful—and also completely misleading.
Many readers use email privacy tools and tracking blockers, especially with Apple’s Mail Privacy Protection. That means your open rate might be under-reported… or over-reported. Either way, it’s not the whole story. Click-throughs, comments, and replies tell you more. Actual connection tells you everything.
Readers are Friends not Food Sales
Your readers aren’t waiting to be “converted.” They’re waiting to be invited in.
The moment you stop pitching and start playing, something magical happens: they look forward to your emails. They open, they click, they reply, they care.
And isn’t that what we all want as writers?
What would your readers most like to receive from you?
About Lisa

Lisa Norman's passion has been writing since she could hold a pencil. While that is a cliché, she is unique in that her first novel was written on gum wrappers. As a young woman, she learned to program and discovered she has a talent for helping people and computers learn to work together and play nice. When she's not playing with her daughter, writing, or designing for the web, she can be found wandering the local beaches.
Lisa writes as Deleyna Marr and is the owner of No Stress Writing Academy. She also runs Heart Ally Books, LLC, an indie publishing firm.
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